Married to a Narcasist for 38 Years tried to get him help many times, but after DV incident after incidents I’ve given up ! He had two sides but as he gets older he’s more dangerous ! Now fighting for assets but he is selling of to son ? Can’t win … I feel like walking away but I don’t want to reward him for doing the wrong things! He is a compulsive Liar manipulator , and a great actor … so smooth ! I’m lucky I’m alive , I Guess The old wedding vows are so Wrong … if I was educated on gaslighting , and all the things I thought were normal my life could have been better ! Learning that it’s not ok what he has subjected me since I got sick 10 years ago! Time to go forward to start life again .